- 7 years ago
I’m just going to say it.
I kind of hate wedding planning.
Its going to be amazing when we get there, all of the tiny details, the dress, location, look on his face… All I want is to be married to my best friend and move on with our happy lives. He has been fantastic through this entire process and we’re on the same page with being so over all this planning.
I’m in a constant mini battle, if it isn’t one thing its another. The woman altering my dress is horrible-shes talanted-but rude, snootty and a constant B/know it all. We’re designed our invites from sctracht at this point and the woman/company still wont make the minor adjustments we’re asking for and we’re now two weeks PAST when we wanted to mail them and she still hasn’t finished so they could be printed so it will be at least another week.
Our first photographer screwed us so we’re having to sort out trying to get a deposit back from the credit card company-please, please cross your fingers we get all that money back. We ended up settling on someone else just to have a person-and have way over paid the new people.
The amazing band we had all set up fell apart and now we’re stuck dishing out all kinds of money for a dj.
We have no idea about a cake, who will marry us and I can’t find shoes I really like (okay I know some of these are silly but some are really important!!).
It seems like we’re spending soo much money and having to pull teeth at every step just to get someone to listen to what we might possibly want.
We’re both far away from family and most of our friends and planning basically a destination wedding which is only adding to the stress. I’m newer to the area and work from home so I feel like I’m completely out of touch with my support base. I need a little encuragement here bees…