(Closed) I have a deputy maid of honor

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper

My Maid/Matron of Honor is married to J’s best man. Since Bridesmaid or Best Man is his BFF and has been since like, 11th grade, it was an easy choice to let her walk down the aisle with her hubby 🙂 since I have two close friend and a cousin in my party!

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I couldn’t choose either, so I have a Matron of Honor and a Lady of Honor.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I just decided to go with two Maid of Honors…

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I didn’t have the problem, but I know someone who did and she chose to have 2 Maid/Matron of Honor

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I had a Maid/Matron of Honor that wasn’t organized.  Big heart but just wasn’t up to the task.  So come wedding week I ended up with a deputy of sorts.  She totally stepped up and I’ll thank her forever for it.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I was going to have to decide between my sister my best friend.  Family trumps a lot in my book, but my sister’s only 20, 9 yrs younger than me, and my bf had me as Maid/Matron of Honor at her wedding this past summer, so I was really torn.  I solved it by having them both!  My sister will be my MAID of Honor and bf will be my MATRON of Honor since she’s now married.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

my  moh lives far away, and my bridesmaid lives here. my bridesmaid just gets stuck doing more wedding stuff than she probably should have too! oh well.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I have 2 – a maid of honor and a matron of honor.  ha ha.  I haven’t decided what order they will walk down the aisle yet though.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper

I just went with one Maid/Matron of Honor.  I was going to have two, but then the other one flaked out on the friendship.  She kind of made the decision for me!

Post # 13
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I have one of each a Matron and a Maid.  They have been my best friends since freshman year of college, so I couldn’t chose between the two on my big day!

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’m having my sister (who lives out of state) be my maid and my friend (who lives in town) do the duties.  They’re both fine with the arrangement.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

I don’t have a Maid/Matron of Honor and the boy doesn’t have a Best Man. We each have three attendants who will be treated equally.

The reasoning was simple. He didn’t want to have to choose one brother over the other. And I’d have chosen my sister over my two friends, but she lives in Europe and won’t be too involved. So we just decided to scrap the idea and have everyone be equal.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

My sister is my maid of honor … my best friend is my matron of honor.  🙂

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