(Closed) I have a question…

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 31
425 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

mrsb616 :  apologies if i have upset you and you dont like what your reading, easy fix would be to  leave the thread, everyone is entitled to an opinion, as are you……


Post # 32
5161 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2010

I have a question…why does it matter?

If I can see a ring, it is real. I don’t care if it is a diamond, a moissanite, or an ice cube. 

While I know many who are happy to tell the world their ring is a moissanite/Amora Gem/CZ, I can tell you the reason some people try and “pass them off” is because just like here, in real life if people find out it is not a diamond they get told it is not real, they hear negative comments about how their partner cheaped out (even if they chose the ring themselves!), that they can always upgrade later to something real.

I have diamonds and moissanite. Both are beautiful in their own right. I do slightly prefer my own diamonds, but I would also take a great moissanite over a poor cut/poor performing diamond any day. While I don’t hide the fact I wear moissanites too, I don’t care to go around making sure people who see it are not assuming they are diamonds. I would never do that to someone either. Because again…who cares? I sure don’t. 

There are no bonus life points for having a diamond versus anything else. 

Post # 33
1424 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

annieem :  Of course everyone is entitled to an opinion. Calling someone else’s choice of ring ugly is just rude though as is picking out one person’s post. There are many rings I have seen on here (and some stones) which I don’t think are the prettiest but then I don’t comment on the threads. 

Post # 34
1273 posts
Bumble bee

Because a lot of people have no self-esteem and decide that others get to determine their worth, and that this “worth” is determined by what type of ring/wedding/house/possessions they have. They are the saddest people and I pity them.

Post # 35
1762 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Honestly who cares what’s on someone else’s finger? Should we not just be worried about our own? 

Post # 36
11520 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

Threasd started to cause drama are against the TOS, I’m going to close this now for review.

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