(Closed) I have lost my mind!

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
44 posts

have you questioned yourself as to why? is it just daunting when it feels real for you?

Post # 3
4717 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I would think this over.  You CAN take it back.  Or suggest, “Propose any time between now and a month after you graduate… you know, to give you time to make it special.  No pressure.”

Post # 4
42 posts

I agree with damarajade. If you think you’ve made a mistake (for your sanity) than tell him that you didn’t want him to feel pressured but he could certainly propose before he graduates.

Post # 5
4233 posts
Honey bee

Begging for a ring is not a good look. You know it’s coming now, so just enjoy yourself. Maybe you pushed it back because deep down, you want the ring and the wedding but haven’t considered the marriage. 

Post # 6
5945 posts
Bee Keeper

Jadegreen:  Well you do want him to propose on his terms.  Begging him for a ring forces him into a situation he may not be comfortable with.  He may still propose by December you never know, but now he’s doing it when he feels it’s right and not when you do.

Post # 7
141 posts
Blushing bee

Sending virtual hugs.

I certianly think that this could work out in your favor. By giving your SO a looser time frame, he may be able to surprise you with a unique proposal. It may seem like you have lost your mind, but you also are getting ready to get proposed to, so will waiting another few months – now that you’re assured that a proposal will happen – really be that much of a struggle? I’m, by no means, downplaying the stress that waiting creates; I’m just pointing out that you are so close!! I’d be excited and happy, not worried or stressed.

Good luck.

Post # 9
935 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I’ve  been feeling that way since I  knew for sure it was coming. 

Peaceful. No fights either, for quite  awhile. Enjoy it!!!

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 11 months ago by  DreamingBee.

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