(Closed) I have no control!!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

@sapphirecupcake:  LOL I was wondering if anyone else went back to try the same ring on again. I literally tried on two rings about four times each when we went ring shopping. And I probably would have tried them on again hahahaha. You’re totally not crazy for going back. If he said you can pick it out, then by all means, go back as many times as you need to so you’re sure that you chose the right one! Who cares what the salespeople think anyway. It’s their job to help you find the ring of your dreams!

Your dream is probably your biggest worry. I don’t think it suggests he’s actually going to cheat on you and leave. Maybe if you tell him about your dream, he can reassure you that it was just that: a dream πŸ™‚

Post # 5
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Helper bee

@sapphirecupcake: LOL yes, waiting can make us loopy. Don’t be afraid to go back!! I’m telling you, you might regret it more if you don’t make sure you are 100%. So just go! It might be the last time you go before it happens anyway πŸ˜‰ How long have you been together? Or waiting? πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Oh yeah, it’s definitely harder after ring shopping.  It’s like an itch you can’t scratch!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

We went ring shopping over a month ago and I’m obsessed with what he’s up to also!  I know he’s talking to someone to get it custom made so now every time his phone makes a noise I flip!

And I had that dream too!  I know he would never cheat on me, so maybe it has a less literal meaning?

Anyways, I say go for it and go back to try it on.  Before my SO took me ring shopping, I went with a friend because I just couldn’t wait.  It can’t be any more awkward than that was…

Post # 8
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Helper bee

A dream about someone cheating means in your waking life they are going to shock you…Maybe a proposal is in the stars?? πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I have no advice in the ring department as he picked out mine.  However, I was having similar dreams.  The wierd part is I know he is not that kind of guy and wouldnt do that (nor does he have the time).  I think once you start thinking THIS IS IT you naturally go through some doubts and ours are maybe showing up in our sleep! 

Can’t wait to see pictures of the ring when you get it!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

When I told my SO that I had that dream, he said, “I’m sorry I was a shitty boyfriend in your dreams, it’s a good thing I’m not in real life.”

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Hahaha, I was like that with my dress! I just wanted to “visit” it all the time!

Ugh. I have those awful nightmares, too! And he would never, ever do anything like that!

They’re awful.

On the bright side, soon you’ll have your beautiful ring to dream about!

Post # 13
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Helper bee

@DreamingofDiamonds:  That’s right girl! Keep that optimism. πŸ™‚ I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you. Every woman who truly wants to be a wife deserves to be one. πŸ™‚ 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee

Your not crazy at all – I have been obesessing over my ring for a couple of weeks now since i found the manufacturer and they showed me the most amazing loose diamond I have ever seen. Now I think & dream about it constantly! I nearly wish they wouldnt take us shopping and just use a proposal ring to save us all this anxiety lol

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