- 1 year ago
- Wedding: City, State
I’m going on 2 years of marriage. When we first got married I realized how low a sex drive he had…and it absolutely crushed me. Based on everything I had heard from, well anywhere (movies, jokes, friends, etc), I thought men had a high sex drive and wanted it all the time. It is not that way with my husband. And for the first months of our marriage I sank into depression over this because I felt undesirable. I would make advances, wear sexy things, send him naughty texts, and he would be uninterested or turn me down.
Now, we’re in a sort of flow, and we’ll do it maybe 3-4 times a month. It’s always great, but I feel something lacking. Even after me specifically requesting so, he never sends me naughty texts. He rarely iniates. And I want it several times a week, not just once a week. After a wonderful night I’m pumped up to do it again – asap. but then waiting a week or two weeks to go again is frustruating.
I guess I’m feeling very alone, as this is embarrassing to talk to my friends about especially since no one else seems to have this problem.
I also feel a misled. I was expecting sex like every day – we both talked about that before marriage – and I’ve been so let down.
Sometimes we have waited so long in between times that I don’t even care anymore. It just hurts too bad to care so much sometimes.
Do any ladies have any advice for me on if this could get better, or if I will have to learn to live with less sex than I want?