(Closed) i have to go to court tomorrow :(

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 33
7680 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Oh, I am so sorry about this as I have written before.  Even though you feel like you are crumbling-you are not!  I am glad that you know that you can’t be with him.  In time you will heal and life will be better-not only for you, but for your boys too.  You will have new good times.  Your life will get better.  Hugs and prayers to you. 

Post # 34
1480 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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All those things you’re feeling now are natural. You’re grieving the man you thought he was. In a way, that person is gone. I believe that when a person betrays you so badly, it can be more devastating than if they died. At least in death, you’d still have happy memories to keep alive in your heart. In this case, you’re also mourning all those happy memories that are now tainted by his betrayal.

Take good care of yourself and do whatever you need to do to get through this. Let your friends and family support you and help you out. It will just take some time before you’re feeling more like your old self.

You’ll be in my thoughts.

Post # 35
198 posts
Blushing bee

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@zalonia: I missed my ex for months, despite the living hell that was my life with him.  It will get better, but it will also take time.  Even when people reminded me of that last night with him, and how he hurt me so much more that time than the others, I still loved him and thought of the good times.

Take your time.  It will be hard to get over him, but you will.  I think it’s almost harder to get over someone who has hurt you so badly, because you also have to deal with the “what went wrong?” thoughts.  Take some time for yourself.  Good luck.

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