(Closed) I have to invite this couple right?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I invite this couple?
    Yes, it's really the polite thing to do since they invited you to their wedding. : (2 votes)
    5 %
    No, invite (or don't invite) whoever the heck you want. : (37 votes)
    95 %
  • Post # 3
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    1235 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @vermontia:  Just dont invite them. Dont invite them to your wedding just because you were invited to theirs. 

    Post # 4
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    2273 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I agree you don’t have to invite them… You don’t sound particularly close and he wasn’t on your guest list before so don’t feel you have to.

    Invite who you want to be there on your day 🙂

    Post # 5
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    69 posts
    Worker bee

    Just don’t invite them. Problem solved.

    Post # 6
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    2712 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Not to worry!  You don’t have to invite them if you don’t want to.  Weddings are not tit for tat so just because they invited you to theirs does not mean you have to invite them to yours. =)

    Post # 6
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    7609 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    The people you invite to your wedding are supposed to be the people you care about and want to share your day with.  I wouldn’t invite them without a second thought!

    Post # 7
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    2247 posts
    Buzzing bee

    No, you don’t have to invite them.  Don’t.

    Post # 8
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    11272 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    there is no protocol that says that you need to invite them to your wedding.

    Post # 9
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    141 posts
    Blushing bee

    There is not rule of etiquette stating that you must return an invite.

    Their choice to invite you was THEIR choice. If they invited you in the hope that you would reciprocate, they have made false assumptions.

    If you don’t want them at your wedding you are under no obligation to invite them.

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