(Closed) I have to put a ? next to my dad’s name :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Sorry you are going threw this.

Have you asked your dad for a little help when she wasn’t around? Maybe mention how hurt you are that he helped your step-sister more than he’s helping you and that you just want to know that he’s there for you. I’d even go as far as saying (if it’s true) that the money doesn’t even matter to you it’s his SUPPORT you want and need. I’d have a serious talk with him about it.

Post # 4
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968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

What an awful situation! Your step-mom sounds horrible. Things like this make me so mad for you. Although it is not a requirement for the parents to contribute anything towards the wedding, the way your stepmom is handling the situation is infuriating. I am so sorry you’ve had to deal with this woman for so long.

I know you’ve said that you’ve tried opening your dad’s eyes, but have said so much to him as you mentioned in this post? Did he try to discredit what you told him? Or did you just not paint so clear a picture to him of how she makes you feel and why?

Post # 6
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968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Ugh. I feel for you. Hopefully you can make some headway with your dad when he comes down. Good luck!

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