(Closed) I have to tell him it's over. Help me stay strong in that decision.

posted 1 year ago in No Kids
Post # 2
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3446 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - City, State

You need to do this if you believe he will want children in the future. It well be painful, but much less painful if you were to put years into this relationship only to have to walk away much later.

You know your position on having children. He does not know his position on having kids. That kind of uncertainty will eat away at you, and may cause him to grow resentful over time if he does feel like his mind is starting to change.

It sucks when someone is so perfect in every other way, but children are one of the few issues in a relationship that are not negotiable and there is no compromise for. Stay strong knowing that this will allow both of you an opportunity to have the kind of future you want for yourselves.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Aw that’s that’s tough but you’re making the right decision. No point getting deeper into your relationship then have him one day realise he desperately wants kids and break up with you, or settle with not having kids but later resent you 🙁

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