Post # 73
I sent an email to the head of department simply asking what was said to them regarding me. Also, I will try to catch my professors this evening as I go right by their offices and they work at night. I think it’s important I know exactly what was done/said.
Post # 74
The reason why I brought up my cousin was because SHE is what I think of when I try to determine if I’m over-reacting about something. She is my
benchmark of the worst thing that can happen because you don’t reach out and communicate at the risk of saying or doing something that your family won’t like. I was not trying to be dramatic or sensationalistic. You asked what “something big” would be to me, and I answered you.
People post on WB to get other people’s opinions. I recognize that my view is not popular, but I just wanted to add my thoughts to the discussion. In my culture, family is everything, and you make it work somehow. Calling up someone’s school to see if they were lying about being able to get time off is something I could easily see someone in my (Asian) family doing. That’s why I think it’s a relatively small issue in the grand scheme of things.
That’s all you’ll be hearing from me on the subject. OP, I didn’t mean to diminish your situation, just wanted to bring up a different point of view.
Post # 75
How is everything going?? Update?
Post # 76
Yeah, I’ve read every single post, and I can’t believe sometimes how people act in times like these… Updates? HUGS! <3
Post # 77
Do not go to this wedding.
Post # 78
Just posted in family, thanks!
Really nothing has changed. The things they’ve accused me of are still in their mind, although FH has told them where they are wrong about me.
They want to come down to visit because they ‘don’t understand’…..
I honestly see it as a desperate attempt to make their son think they care about him when their silence and attitudes towards me tell him otherwise. I really don’t think I can live with these people and unless they continue acting this way, FH refuses to cut them out entirely simply because they’ve hurt me so badly recently. I feel we need to do this to be happy again. IT’s def. caused struggles between us and I don’t think they are worth it.