I haven’t slept in days due to this (probably more emotional but I had to post)

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 74
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@delovelyjenn: The reason why I brought up my cousin was because SHE is what I think of when I try to determine if I’m over-reacting about something.  She is my benchmark of the worst thing that can happen because you don’t reach out and communicate at the risk of saying or doing something that your family won’t like.  I was not trying to be dramatic or sensationalistic.  You asked what “something big” would be to me, and I answered you.

People post on WB to get other people’s opinions.  I recognize that my view is not popular, but I just wanted to add my thoughts to the discussion.  In my culture, family is everything, and you make it work somehow.  Calling up someone’s school to see if they were lying about being able to get time off is something I could easily see someone in my (Asian) family doing.  That’s why I think it’s a relatively small issue in the grand scheme of things.

That’s all you’ll be hearing from me on the subject.  OP, I didn’t mean to diminish your situation, just wanted to bring up a different point of view.

Post # 75
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835 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

How is everything going?? Update?

Post # 76
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278 posts
Helper bee

Yeah, I’ve read every single post, and I can’t believe sometimes how people act in times like these… Updates? HUGS! <3

Post # 77
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1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Do not go to this wedding.

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