(Closed) I hope I am posting in the right board….

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
4352 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I would start by writing them without a goal length in mind. Then read them out loud and see if they feel too long or short and adjust as necessary.

This is coming from someone who hasn’t written her vows yet thought.

Post # 4
46421 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’ve flagged this so one of the mods can move it to ceremony.

Post # 5
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

They can be whatever length you want them to be. The only thing I would think about is if they’re about the same length as your FI’s. Why don’t you two decide together how long they should be? 

Post # 6
963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I wrote my own vows. I think 1 to 2 short paragraphs is good, anything longer than that should probably go in a private letter to your Fiance

Post # 7
688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I think this could either go in ceremony or traditions.

I don’t think it has to be any required length…I would personally go with something under a paragraph, sweet and to the point, but I don’t like speaking in front of large groups of people either. πŸ™‚

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