Post # 31
I’m not saying her behavior wasn’t rude. Just trying to think of an alternative reason instead of her being a jerk.
Post # 32
Sounds like she doesn’t want to maintain the friendship. Shitty that it happened, but, shit happens. Let it be water off a duck’s back.
Post # 33
Saying that she may have felt conered is NOT the same thing as YOU cornered her. Relax. She may have felt cornered. Maybe not rightfully so. It doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong. But that doesn’t prevent people from having feelings.
Post # 34
I do not think she was sick. She did not tell me why she didnt go up until this date. It has been over a month. She also commented on my wedding pics on how great I looked. She clearly did not go, knows she didn’t go and missed it and has not said a word to me. Other than weird facebook comments about how great I looked.
Post # 35
I dont really get your logic but suuureee. How is asking someone if they are going to an event cornering them or making a person feel cornered? I didnt demand anything or do anything werid. When you dont get a response for a plated event you have to ask if the person is coming for catering reasons. Have you ever been married? There are always people that dont reply. We got a bunch of people that didnt reply that said they would go that went. It happens.
Post # 37
Given the ubiquitousness of social media, it is all the more appalling that many people have no sense of grace, nor of etiquette. Friends of mine hosted a dinner party. Direct contact was made with guests; social media was not relied on. They changed the time of the party because most of the guests had a conflict with the time. Three out of 20 confirmed guests attended, and they weren’t the ones who wanted a time change.