I invited an old co-worker to my wedding and she didnt go..

posted 2 years ago in 30 Something
Post # 31
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Sugar bee

Innerdonught :  I’m not saying her behavior wasn’t rude. Just trying to think of an alternative reason instead of her being a jerk.

Post # 32
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Sounds like she doesn’t want to maintain the friendship. Shitty that it happened, but, shit happens. Let it be water off a duck’s back.

Post # 33
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Helper bee

Saying that she may have felt conered is NOT the same thing as YOU cornered her. Relax. She may have felt cornered. Maybe not rightfully so. It doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong. But that doesn’t prevent people from having feelings.

Post # 37
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Worker bee

crnnc :  Given the ubiquitousness of social media, it is all the more appalling that many people have no sense of grace, nor of etiquette.  Friends of mine hosted a dinner party.  Direct contact was made with guests; social media was not relied on.  They changed the time of the party because most of the guests had a conflict with the time.  Three out of 20 confirmed guests attended, and they weren’t the ones who wanted a time change.

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