(Closed) I just called the OBGYN..

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
5107 posts
Bee Keeper

@AcheneMalefic:  Oh no…I am sooo sorry….That’s horrible!!!! Maybe he will change his mind in a few months…Big hugs lady…So sorry.

Post # 4
818 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@AcheneMalefic:  Aww I’m sorry. Have you explained your concerns with him? What does he say. What is his reasoning behind not wanting to try again right now.  I am sorry about the bc pills, they also made me sick. Took me years to figure that out though.

Post # 5
7647 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Very sorry about your situation. Like, Izzy81, I’d like to know what his reasoning is for not wanting them for a while. Is it just the devistation of the MC or is it something else? Maybe he has a legit reason for not wanting to, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt. I hope everything works out for you in the future.

Post # 6
5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

If you decide to hold off on TTC, is there any way he’d be open to using condoms instead of hormones?  If you get irritable and don’t tolerate hormonal BCP very well, there are other options.  Also, if he changes his mind and you guys decide to start TTC again sooner rather than later, you won’t have to wait for your body to regulate after coming off BCP.

Post # 7
4575 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I am so sorry he changed his mind to no baby for now, but did he say exactly why he changed his mind?  Is it cause maybe he wants you to just get better physically after your MC ?(sorry about that too btw) I would try to talk to him about it and how you feel about going back on bcp.  If you really don’t mind waiting then try to seek other methods to prevent.  I am sorry again and i do wish you the best..feel better:)

Post # 8
3501 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2002

we were actively ttc for 2 years and when i finally went to an RE at a fertility clinic for help, they put me on bc! they said itll help jumpstart my ovaries. and i got a bfp our first cycle! we did use other things like letrozole and injections but they said if it didnt work, theyd put me back on bc for a month or more to restart. and keep repeating that til it worked. im sorry about your m/c. those are so hard. i hope your second chance around trying for the LO wont take as long as the first! xo

Post # 11
389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@AcheneMalefic:  So sorry about your MC 🙁 If I were you I would definitely not want to go back on a hormonal birth control. I’d look at other options that might allow you to have more control over deciding when to TTC again. I know it is different for everyone, but for me it took a while to understand my cycles and for my cycles to somewhat regulate after coming off BCP. Good luck!

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