Post # 1
Well…I am reminded daily by the wonderful family and friends around me that our wedding day is just two weeks away. Guess what? I don’t care. I don’t care if the little things that still need to get done even get done. I don’t care if people even show up at the wedding. Hell, I don’t really care if there even is a wedding. I’m so sick of planning and kissing everyone’s a$$ and acting all happy when I’m about to absolutely break into a million pieces that I JUST DON’T CARE. I quit. I’m done.
What in the hell is wrong with me?
Post # 3
I think you know the answer to that one. You are STRESSED!
Relax, let things go.In the end, it won’t matter what is not done or what doesn’t happen, you will be marrrying the love of your life.
Post # 4
There’s nothing wrong with you. I think you’re just totally burned out on the whole wedding planning thing. I think you should take a day off, NO WEDDING TALK at all, just a day to do whatever. Clean the house, go on a date with your fiance, forget that the wedding is even happening, just for a day. See how you feel. I can guarantee you’ll feel better after the day is over.
Post # 5
Whatever happens will happen. Stop kissing butts and get your chin up!
Just go into hiding until your big day and enjoy it with Fiance 🙂
Post # 6
There is nothing wrong with you, I did the exact same thing. No advice on how to get through it, but at that point for me I was just over the whole thing.
Post # 7
You are just stressed there is nothing wrong with you!!! You are almost there!!! Just a few more days ish. Im so sorry you are feeling like this. Take a few moments to just breathe and have some time for yourself. For today do nothing wedding related just have a mental health day for you!! You need it and you deserve it!!
Post # 8
@mollyib: I feel EXACTLY the same way….I just want to go in a room and shut the door….I hate everything right about now and I get the same ol “are you excited!” Yes I’m excited because I’m marrying the man I love but I regret having this wedding with a bunch of ppl who don’t give two shits about me :/
Post # 9
Thanks everyone. I know I’m stressed to the max (on top of this wedding I started a new job Thursday) but I really don’t care if this wedding even happens. I’m glad to know you’ve all been there.
Exactly! I’m so fed up with everybody aksing if I’m excited or if they can help. Umm, no I’m sorry you can’t help. I’m a control freak who needs things done in a particular fashion and I don’t have time to explain it to you so it’s easier if I do it myself. I guess I put myself in this funk but ugh, for lack of a better statement, I just don’t care.
Why, oh why did I say yes?