(Closed) I Just Don’t Get How the Ring Bearer Thing Works

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
1715 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Im not sure since we dont have one but your officiant will indicate what the order should be.

Post # 5
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  • In a traditional Christian Wedding is as followUshers
  • BMs
  • Ring Bearer
  • Flower Girl
  • Bride!


Post # 6
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Oh and I forgot, ther recessional is as follows:

  • Bride and Groom
  • Ring Bearer and Flower Girl
  • Groomsmen and Bridesmaids

Post # 7
3175 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We are having my 2.5 year old son walk down the aisle with my mom, holding this (http://www.marthastewartweddings.com/226604/silk-flower-ring-pillow?center=272429&gallery=230988&slide=191942) ring pillow without rings in it. He’ll then sit down with her. I don’t think he has the attention span to stand up with us during the ceremony, and I don’t really trust him with our real rings 🙂 Our actual wedding rings will really be held by our best man & Maid/Matron of Honor. I think there are a lot of different ways you can work things, it just depends on the maturity of your ring bearer and what you like. Hope This Helps.


Post # 8
87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We are having 2 – 2 year olds as our ring bearers. Both are total hams so I am not too worried about them not making it down the aisle. My biggest suggestion is having their “comfort” person being towards the front of the church. Seat their mom/dad/grandparent up close to the front and when their duties are over allow them to sit with their person who can help them get going when its time to walk back down. They are carrying faux rings on their pillows!

Post # 11
964 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

They usually don’t actually carry the rings.  Can you imagine everyone on the floor searching for rings..lol

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