(Closed) I just found out why my mom doesn’t like FH… How lame.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I’m sorry 🙁 It is so hard to hear that your parents don’t love your s/o as much as you do. I think parents just have some unreasonable expectations sometimes… or have in their head who you should be with and when you bring home someone that doesn’t fit that mold they can’t adapt. 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Aww. Im sorry. Thats very unreasonable. It looks like she is looking for reasons to hate him…….. maybe because she liked ur ex so much?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

I’m sorry! It really does sound like she is just picking on him to try and not like him. Why…. I have no idea. Is no guy ever good enough for her “little girl”? I would offer that up as a suggestion, but she was ok with your ex?

I am on the other side of this situation. There is a possibility that my SO mother doesn’t care for me because my tongue is pierced and I had red hair when she met me. lol 

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

and CorgiTales is completely right. Parents just get ideas of who they want for you. FI’s family doesnt like me……….. get this………… because im not loud and obnoxious like they are. Its rude to be quiet they say, and for his moms info i think its rude to be obnoxious. lol.. Well that and we had sex, live together, and he left her home to live with me. lol.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@truitjen: I agree! 

It sounds like to me that she liked youre ex A LOT and is now nitpicking your Fiance.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Blah. That sucks. : / Hopefully she’ll come around once she starts to see him more.

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Oh wow.  That does sound like some pretty bad ‘reasons’!  Were you able to talk some sense into her about why her reasons are completely unjust?

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

She is your mom… nobody is really going to ever be good enough.. at least these arent real reasons, and there isnt some huge horrible thing about him.. im sure in time they wil get along fine.

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sorry you have to go through that. It seems parents always have this idea in their head about who they picture their children marrying and if they aren’t a perfect match they find a reason to hate them. Give her time, if you love him she’ll have to come around and realize that if you love him he must be really great. Parents can be frustrating!

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sorry you have to go through that. It seems parents always have this idea in their head about who they picture their children marrying and if they aren’t a perfect match they find a reason to hate them. Give her time, if you love him she’ll have to come around and realize that if you love him he must be really great. Parents can be frustrating!

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

Oh goodnes. Remember how happy he makes you! Those are incredibly shallow reasons for her to not like someone. She may be jealous of the nuptuals? Is she a jealous person? I am sorry,  I hope things work out for you and things get less-stressful very quickly.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

I say it’s time to vote your mom off the island.

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