(Closed) I just got told, “oh you could have done better” in regards to my FI

posted 12 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
7052 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’d say…I could have done worse (if the offender is male)…I could have married YOU!

Post # 4
1356 posts
Bumble bee

WOW. I am irate for you! How could someone be so RUDE??? You handled it much better than I would have…that guy would have gotten what is coming to him! Don’t let him get to you…and TGIF! 🙂

Post # 5
2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Now that sucks doesn’t it. Well maybe your co-worker has a thing for you?! Seriously though there are plenty of people who really don’t have anything nice to say.

Brush it off and ignore him! You will be married to the man of your dreams in just a few weeks!

Post # 6
1105 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I say, forget the ignorant people in the world and enjoy the rest of your day and your weekend!!  Woo Hoo, you’re getting on a plane to go see the love of your life, that’s all that matters!!!!  People like that are usually jealous that they don’t have that something special in their life and only want to bring others down.  DON"T LET IT!!!!!  Ignore him and have fun!!!!

Post # 7
92 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Wow, that was really tasteless and just plain rude on the part of the person who said that to you!  Even if it was meant to be a joke it’s a very bad one and if they were being serious that’s even worse.  I’m so sorry someone was so rude to you. 

I’ve come to realize lately that there are way too many people out there who just seem to have no filter what-so-ever.  They just say whatever and don’t even realize that it might just be hurtful.  I liken it to one of those cars with the catalytic converter removed and a huge coffee can exhaust pipe!

Post # 8
60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Hmm, what does Fiance stand for? I’m thinking future husband, but that’s fh…

And for the record, the guy who said that is a jerk and probably has a thing for you. Or it could be that he just was upset about something and didn’t watch what he was saying closely enough.

Either way, not worth wasting your time on. And just so you know, I totally would have reacted in the same manner.


Post # 9
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I love bellenga’s response!!!

I’m newly engaged and it’s beyond me, the tactless things that people say/ask. I can’t even imagine why someone would think it’s OK to say that to someone else but try not to let it ruin your weekend. Whenever someone says something that rubs me the wrong way, I just figure they’re either jealous, or incredibly socially awkward, and either way, I am better off not letting that type of negative energy get to me

Post # 11
1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

aw, I think he’s just sour grapes, dont worry about it and let people bring you down; some people get jealous of other people’s happiness or successes and want to pull them down


stay happy

Post # 13
1508 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Jeez. I’d would have had a hard time keeping my mouth shut. I think you guys make a cute couple.

Post # 14
2022 posts
Buzzing bee

What a jerk!  Well, I suppose you could take it as a compliment that you are gorgeous!!

PS – nothing wrong with short guys – my Fiance is only 5’6!

PPS – to whoever was asking "FI" – short for fiance.

Post # 15
1205 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

That’s a great picture! You two are both good looking. My mind is coming up with dirty things to say, but dirty or not, there are more than looks that make you fall in love!

Some people…

Post # 16
1091 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2020 - Oakland Manor

You guys are a cute couple and your co worker is a butthead.  Yuck to him.

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