(Closed) I just have to ask….

posted 6 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Have you...
    Lied and said you liked a ring when you didnt? : (66 votes)
    31 %
    Told the truth and said to someone you didnt like their ring? (I have never seen this yet) : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Said one of the quotes above "unique" or "different" : (16 votes)
    8 %
    Didnt comment on the post cause the ring was, ummmm not nice??? : (126 votes)
    60 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    11752 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I just don’t comment personally.  I think saying “that is different or unique” isn’t a bad thing though and I have definitely said those comments and meant them in a very good way! 

    Post # 4
    Member
    700 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2004

    I usually just don’t comment if I see a ring I don’t like.

    Post # 5
    Member
    5405 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I stick to “if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all.” The world would be a better place if more people remembered that. I think on the Internet its easy to say something you normally wouldn’t say to someone’s face…although I don’t think I’ve seen that about a ring yet (just other topics lol)!

    Post # 6
    Member
    4464 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I try to give comments on rings and dresses that speak specifically to something that I like about the ring or dress or whatever it is. But eh sometimes I just say oh that’s pretty! LOL 

    My point is that just because may say it’s unique doesn’t mean I don’t like it. Mostly if I don’t like something I’ll click out of the thread because I know there are plenty of other bees who do genuinely like that thing and could give better advice or whatnot.

    Post # 7
    Member
    11394 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I don’t just comment on people’s rings usually in real life. But if someone showed me their ring I would tell them its beautiful, weather I liked it for me or not its perfect for them!

    Post # 11
    Member
    1306 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    It really depends. If someone asks what our personal opinion is, then I do not see anything wrong with saying we personally do not like it. If they are just posting to show it off, then I just move on without bashing it just becasue it is not my personal taste.

    Post # 13
    Member
    1676 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    If I see a ring I don’t like on here I just don’t comment. If it’s real life, I try to do what GelaMac mentioned and focus on the congratulations/story part instead of the ring. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    659 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    I have commented on rings to tell people they are pretty, but I stopped doing that because I’d be on here all day responding to people!!!

    Post # 15
    Member
    2825 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    typically I can see beauty in all rings whether it’s my style or not, but I only comment when I feel like it…

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