(Closed) I just left my boyfriend…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@sunshine_kar: Congratulations on being so strong for yourself.  You have done a wonderful thing for you and your children.  Give it some time, go through the grieving and soon you will feel much better and find the right man who respects you and treats you right.  You are NOT worthless and telling you that is unacceptable and a reflection on how insecure he is as a person.  We are here for you!

Post # 4
14966 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think you did the right thing.  You should not stand to be with someone that does not respect you and calls you worthless while you are at home taking care of his child.  Stay strong!

Post # 5
5219 posts
Bee Keeper

I don’t even know you… but seeing that you are a mother ( and probably a damn good one, too) you are definitely anything BUT worthless! I am sorry you’re going through this… WB is a great place to find support. Kepp your chin up and stay strong and true to yourself!

Post # 6
1697 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You are  not worthless. And I promise promise promise that the man who you should spend the rest of your life with will see your value. You did the right thing. stay strong cause I have had to do the same thing you did for the same reasons and Im so glad I did. This is very hard I know but it will all be SO MUCH better after the grief and fear subside. much loves.

Post # 7
7289 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I admire you sooo much!

I’m so sorry you are in this position 🙁 Thankful that you have family and a good head on your shoulder. Your kids will heal and there will be better things for you in your future. Stay strong and don’t give up. You deserves soo much more!

Post # 8
2125 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

U are doing the right thing. Sounds like you two just don’t fit together. He’s just one of those guys who likes to talk to women, and that will probably never change. I’m not the kind of girl who wants that type of guy either.

Plenty of men out there value a girl who’s about her family. Plenty of men out there who won’t make you feel so out of place in the relationship.

Time will show you this is the best decision you ever made. Your son will thank you in the long run for not picking someone who makes you unhappy.

Post # 9
351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

You are a smart lady for getting out of that situation and taking a break away from him. 

No significant other should EVER tell the other they are worthless. This is emotional abuse and inexcuseable. 

Take as much time as you need to figure out what is best for you and your kids. He does not matter right now; you need to take care of yourself and your kids. 

If you don’t feel right in a relationship, don’t stay. Find a support group, couseling, therapy; whatever you need to help you figure out what is best for you and your children.

You’ve taken an amazing brave first step. 

Post # 10
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@sunshine_kar:  So sorry to hear what happened, but I am proud that you were strong enough to walk out when you had to.  Not alot of women has the courage to say “enough is enough” because of kids, family, settling or even thinking that things will change.  You go girl!

Post # 11
1748 posts
Bumble bee

@sunshine_kar:I would hardly consider taking care of your family 365 days a year as worthless. You have a lot of worth and you deserve someone who can appreciate it. I’m sorry you are going through this.

EDIT: Screw him!

Post # 12
1160 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

(((BIG HUG)))

Post # 13
2023 posts
Buzzing bee

I agree with all other PPs. Being a stay at home mom is a HUGE job, and he should appreciate the sacrifices that you are making for your family. My mother is a Stay-At-Home Mom and her husband is so grateful that she is there to keep up with the house, shuttle the kids around for practice and preschool, cook dinners, etc.

And the fact that all he had to say was “I’m sorry that you feel that way” just goes to prove how much of an ass he is. He should be grateful that he has the privilege of being with you instead of treating you like you are his property. 

I hope that things get easier for you and you find a wonderful man for you and your children. You deserve all the happiness in the world. 

Post # 14
2390 posts
Buzzing bee

Good for you. No one deserves to be treated like that. 

Post # 15
2583 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You deserve better and you are strong for being able to stand up and demand that for yourself. You’re going to be okay  🙂    Hug those kiddos extra tight, because needing to be a mom above all else is going to help you get through this. 

Post # 16
3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Good for you for doing what you feel is right. Don’t settle for less than what you feel you deserve. Keep us updated if you need support.

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