(Closed) I just lost my grandma.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Sugar bee

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Avena:  I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. As far as your wedding day, I would definitely do something special to remember her that day. But don’t let her passing make you sad on your big day. She would want you to be happy. I’m sure she would want you to remember all the good memories you have of her, and not to mourn her loss forever. It takes time to heal from the loss of a loved one; but remember that she will always be in your heart. 

Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2016

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Avena:  I’m sorry for your lost. You and your family are in my prayers 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I’m sorry you lost someone so special to you.  My grandmother passed away almost two years ago and I still think of her often. As for your wedding, take it as an opportunity to do something special on that day that makes you feel close to her. You’re not being selfish at all to have that thought. Just grieve now and see where you are emotionally in a year. A lot can change and even though you will always miss her, the pain won’t be as stark as it is right now.

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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

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Avena:  It is hard to lose anyone special, and I’m so sorry.  And I know it seems like you’ll never be able to get through that day without being sad, but its all about perspective….and it will only be tragic if you allow it to be.

Take the time to get through this sad time, and then find some special way to have her with you on that day.  A necklace, a hankercheif, maybe a photo of her in a locket you tuck in your bouquet.  She may not be there the way you wanted her to be, but she’ll be there the way you need her to.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Oh, honey, I’m so sorry for your loss. We lost my grandma at this time of year two years ago and I still miss her with a horrible ache every day. It doesn’t really go away. 

It could be so healing to have something joyful like a wedding sharing this date, and I am sure your grandma was so happy for you and will be there in spirit, in your heart. Give yourself time to grieve. 

((()))

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Helper bee

How terribly sad. I’m so sorry for your loss, Bee.

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