(Closed) i just need to listen to what others think about this…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I would say if he left himself tagged in the photos and didn’t erase those Facebook messages I wouldn’t spend your time worrying. That’s just my opinion!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

Has he ever given you reason to question him before? He may not have told you about the ‘picnic’ becuase he didn’t want to worry you, and he did give you her phone number after you said something, not somthing a guy would do if he was trying to hide anything.  Personally, I wouldn’t worry about it, I could see my SO doing somthing like that just to be nice to a person alone on the hollidays. 

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

@MrsPom: yep, and what she said! If he had anything to hide, he would NOT have left the photo tags on!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Oh sorry I guess I read your original post wrong! Was that message she sent him after you called her?

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Hmmm i don’t know… Those messages make it a whole different story! Did you tell him you read those messages?

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

You know your relationship better than anyone else so I would go with what your gut is telling you.  I would confront him abut the messages and especially about the one giving her the heads up that you would be calling her and for her to lie to you. 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

Ya, that seems a bit off.. and I would be concerned that he says they they will still be friends  if you say they wont be. You may need to ease off him a bit and have a serious talk about this. Everything could be innocent, but I would question why he would even tell her to say that some other girl was there (flat out lie to you). LDR are hard enough as is, I don’t know how they can work without trust. 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

If they are just friends I don’t think that’s cheating, guys are allowed to have friends that are girls but they shouldn’t be secret from you.

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