(Closed) I just need to vent :-/ Long… sorry

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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1240 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

First and foremost, (((((HUGS))))) and second. Just put them on the back burner. Spring wedding are nice. I might be partial, but I like the colors for spring better. 

AND now you can say. I DID IT MYSELF! And you don’t have to worry about their input. “thanks for that offer but we already have xxx covered”

Post # 5
Member
193 posts
Blushing bee

@Fallicious1012: Ok im in LOVE with the second dress. Oh how I wish I was this size to wear such a glamorous dress. LOVE IT!

Sorry i just love wedding dresses! I think you guys are doing the right thing. And yep you have a total right to be pissed, i mean it is NO-ONES business if your parents dont have a mortgage and its just damn rude to openly discuss it. 

I think in the meantime you and you FI and your parents need to go spend some quality non wedding related time away, maybe a weekend away somewhere to refresh. its sounds as though your future husband could use some of your mums pampering! 

Post # 6
Member
693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Good for you!!! No credit card debt is the way to go. We just bought a house and are SLOWWWLYYY furnishing it with cash only purchases. Everything for the wedding is either paid for with cash/check or it has to wait. I refuse to be in debt for a wedding! My family sees the things we buy (couch/paint for the house/appliances) and our ideas for the wedding (destination, week in florida) and they’re like, “Must be nice to have money!” No, Dad, we just save and save until we have enough to PAY IT OFF!

You will feel so much better knowing you aren’t in debt and things are totally paid for! Congrats! Ignore every one else, it’s your wedding!

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