Post # 1
Now, I know marriage isn’t a competition, and that every relationship is different. And I’m usually a very calm, relaxed person about these things, but…
I just realized that I got married before every single person that has ever broken my heart.
And it’s kind of a good feeling.
It would be better if I didn’t feel so guilty about relishing it for a few minutes.
Any other Bees have moments like this?
Post # 3
I sort of did! I can’t say that I had gotten married before every person who broke my heart b/c I didn’t, but I am 100% happy that I didn’t marry the guy I was supposed to. And thank goodness I didn’t. I’m a million times happier with my husband!
Post # 4
I didn’t get married first, actually out of 3 serious bf’s and my husband, we are 3rd to get married. I relish in the fact that I know that I am truly happy with my husband and my life with him, whereas I highly doubt my two exes that are married are as happy. I wish them the best, but I don’t feel guilty at all because they both put me through a lot.
Post # 5
Sure, why not? We have those heart broken moments and that’s what brought us to the one that we love. Why shouldn’t we take a moment every now and again to think about them within the scope of “and now I’m with my husband and Joe is single and doesn’t believe in marriage”. It helps to put things in perspective.
Post # 6
Good points from all of you. All the guys who broke my heart really put me through hell. One of them just got married two days ago, and I remember just how unstable he was. I don’t envy his wife, although I’m sure she’s happy at the moment. I’m married to the most wonderful man I’ve ever met! He’s leaps and bounds ahead of all the others, and he was sure about me from the get-go. I never had a doubt that we were a perfect fit.
I guess, for the sake of perspective, it’s fine to have an “IN YO’ FACE!!!” moment.
Post # 7
i think it doesnt matter whether they marry b4 or after u.. as long as u are truly happy when u do get married, that should be enough that u found someone better n the chose to be with u 4ever. 2 guys who broke my heard married b4 me… n no one of them has problems with his wife n that doesnt make me feel good.. i just dnt care lol