(Closed) I just saw his bank balance.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Maybe he is trying to pay off some bills or maybe wants to spend like 15k on a ring for you! Hang in there…if you guys are talking about weddings then it will come.

Post # 4
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

How much did you expect for him to spend on a ring?

Obviously, he’s lying.

Post # 6
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3461 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Um, insufficient data to draw any conclusions?

No idea what are his monthly bills, if that’s where he keeps his 6 months emergency money (you both have that right?), if this is his only bank account, etc. 

Post # 8
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9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Could be anything really.  I wouldn’t think too much into it though.  You’ll drive yourself nuts.

Post # 9
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

does he get a christmas bonus for work and this could be it?  im currently processing my bonus payroll and i have guys that split the value (or 100% of it) into different accounts so their wives dont see the full value – what they do with it i have no idea

Post # 11
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1088 posts
Bumble bee

I would be excited if I were you because if he usually keeps 2-5K in that account, this at least demonstrates that he’s saving.  You can rest assured that he is working hard to make things happen for the two of you.  🙂

Post # 12
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4150 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think it’s pretty exciting – sounds like he’s saving up for a ring, and depending on how much he’s going to spend, he may be very close!

Post # 13
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2103 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Maybe he tranferred money from savings to checking (or whatever the accounts are) to use it to buy the ring. Not trying to purposely get your hopes up, but I think it might be a good sign…!

Post # 15
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1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Maybe he just hasn’t “bought” the ring yet. It doesnt mean he hasnt put one on deposit. You usually pay the rest when you collect 🙂

Post # 16
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12953 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Um, maybe he’s just being financially smart?  $12,000 isn’t an insane amount of money to have in savings.  Also, I think you really shouldn’t be looking at his bank account information.  Fiance and I live together but have separate accounts, and I would never dream of sneaking peeks at his financial info (we’re up front about it, we know generally how much cash is on hand, but I don’t see his statements and vice versa). 

I also think it’s unwise to jump to conclusions, especially one like this that’s really getting your hopes up.

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