(Closed) I just turned Bridezilla on my mom…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
66 posts
Worker bee

well, she’s your mom ๐Ÿ™‚ i’m sure she can grasp the level of stress you’re under…take a deep breath, give her a call, apologize, and if you have time, take her to lunch. (but i’m sure you know that lol)

 

just stay calm! idk anything about your wedding, but are people helping you with stuff? do you have a favorite de-stress ritual you do? (preferably one w/o anything to do with the wedding lol)

Post # 4
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2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Breathe. It’ll be OK! Don’t worry!

It might help to just walk away from the whole thing for a few hours. Go for some exercise, or a mani. If there’s too much to do, try to delegate something to your bridal party or Fiance.

Your mom will understand. Call her in a bit.

*hugs!*

Post # 6
Member
2891 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Aww I am sorry you are so stressed. Sending you a cyber hug. Weddings can be so stressful!

Post # 7
Member
1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

Breathe slow and try not to think about wedding planning. Things are coming together, and you’re almost done! ๐Ÿ™‚ I’ve had a few moments this week, but a lot of times you may just be thinking it’s worse than it is because you are feeling so stressed. Luckily I’m finishing up my period, or the wedding would be an emotional suckage.

Post # 8
Member
3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I was a Bridezilla this weekend when Fiance, my dad, and my mom went out to eat. We were trying to figure out what to do now that our destination wedding plans fell through, and next thing I knew, I was shouting, on the verge of tears, and even my dad was staring at me like I had 9 heads. I don’t know where it came from, but I suddenly…LOST IT!

A few days later I called my mom and said I felt bad for getting so upset and she said she understood and wanted me to understand that weddings are difficult and stressful no matter who you are. Your mom will forgive you. She understands. Just apologize once you cool off.

Post # 9
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132 posts
Blushing bee

Assuming you have a good relationship with your mom, you probably freaked out on the best possible person.  Don’t stress too much about your overreaction.  That will just make you even more stressed.  Try as best you can to take your mind off of all things wedding for a few hours.  That might include not reading Weddingbee.  ๐Ÿ™‚

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