(Closed) I just want to punch her in her face!!!!!!!!!!! (long and crazy)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: What should I do?
    Kick her face in : (51 votes)
    26 %
    Ignore her : (49 votes)
    25 %
    Attach a "kick me" sign to her back : (22 votes)
    11 %
    Wait until she falls asleep and draw male genitalia on her face with a sharpie : (77 votes)
    39 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    7293 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Sounds like your sister actually may have some anxiety/mental health issues.

    I would let this be and give some time to blow over…she may change her mind!

    Post # 4
    Member
    83 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    @Eva Peron:  Yea I agree. sounds like anxiety mixed with other mental issues. She will probably change her mind and go back to attending. What do your parents make of this?

    Post # 5
    Member
    380 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    First off *Hugs* to you.  Sisters can be very ummm……theres not a nice word for what sisters can be.  I to am having issues with my sister & I wish you the best of luck.

    Post # 6
    Member
    7609 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I voted for the last option.  😛

    She sounds like a handful….I’m just glad you can come vent it out on here instead of at home.  Sorry your sister is a pain in the arse!

    Post # 7
    Member
    9672 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Wow.  Sorry, I had to laugh because the way you write is fabulous and your sister is a serious nut case.  I voted for drawing a dick on her face with a sharpie.

    Hugs!  And I’m so sorry you’re having to put up with this.  You are a SAINT!!!

    Post # 8
    Member
    1627 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Seriously, she sounds way too irresponsible and selfish.  Or, like PP’s said, maybe there’s a mental issue going on, but she seems like she cares way too much about her involvement in your wedding.  I would not count on her for anything to do with the wedding and would tell her that she can no longer stand up b/c it’s causing you too much stress.  If she wants to still attend, that’s her choice.  I understand it is devastating that a sister acts like this, but this is also your wedding day and it sounds like it’s all supposed to be about her and what she wants.  I can only imagine what she’d pull once in Hawaii.  I’m sorry if this sounds harsh, but she sounds awful!

    Post # 9
    Member
    7174 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Your sister doesn’t sound like she’s out to get you, and I’m certain she doesn’t realize the havoc she’s creating for you.

    It sounds like she has difficulty making decisions and excels at creating drama/making life more difficult that it has to be.

    I would give her clear deadlines – if I don’t hear from you by ‘x’ date about ‘y’, I will do ‘z’.

    Make sure she gets the info and then proceed with ‘z’ if you don’t hear from her.

    Keep in mind, once you do ‘z’, all hell will break loose – so, be prepared to stand your ground, when that happens.

    Post # 10
    Member
    11272 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @Broken Biscuit:  i’m sorry.  this really sucks.  i agree with pp regarding your sister’s mental health.   she is completely unreliable and non-commital.  don’t let her stress you out any more.   i would just consider her as a no and maybe see if someone else could take her place and wear the dress.  as for the food, flowers, hair, etc maybe it’s not too late to make those changes with the vendors.

    Post # 11
    Member
    2401 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Just going by what you said, I am going to go with PP and say mental health issues. I really have no advice, but can your mom or dad step in? 

    Post # 12
    Member
    1638 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @Broken Biscuit:  I want to punch her for you!!!!!!!!

    Can you return her dress and the Flower Girl dress? Would you be willing to sell the other items on Ebay?

    *BIG HUG*

    Enjoy your wedding knowing you are marrying your BFF!!!

    Post # 14
    Member
    11752 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I say this in the nicest way possible, but your sister needs psychological help.  There is just something not right upstairs.

    Post # 15
    Member
    967 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    It definitely sounds like a mental health issue.  I would ignore her.  She also sounds very passive aggressive.

    She will likely change her mind again, mind you, she might not get the flight/hotel accommodations she needs if she doesn’t do it soon. BUT that is HER PROBLEM not yours, and let her deal with taht….it’s a natural consequence of her being a pain in the ass.

    Post # 16
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    9672 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Broken Biscuit:  I disagree with your mother.  You can’t allow your sister to run your life or your wedding.  She seriously needs to learn some boundaries and this may be a good time to start.

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