(Closed) i just want to SCREAM! (long vent)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
326 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@mayday26:  I don’t really have any advice for you, but I’m super stressed too – and this is coming from someone with 5 bridesmaids who have all done everything that was needed (well except for an incident with one who is no longer in the wedding – long story – don’t even get me started).  But yeah, it’s pretty much crunch time and I’m at an all time high as far as stress goes, so I understand your frustration.  As for the shoes – can you maybe just ask them to buy a silver shoe?  Or a nude shoe?  Might be easier than dying them and then they could just find cheap shoes somewhere like Traffic or something or wear shoes they already have.  That’s my only piece of advice at this point.  🙂  Good luck! 

Post # 4
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

 “but i would be willing to wear a spandex orange bodysuit and brown tutu with 6 inch stripper heels and stand up there with any one of these girls at their weddings if they asked me to”

LOL glad to know you have some sense of humor still intact. Yes it is very stressful and at times you will question friendships! You just have to remember the sad truth that nobody cares about your wedding like you do- they don’t have the same pressure and motivation you carry so they often can’t relate and do things that translate to you as uncooperative or uncaring.

As far as friends and vendors- things can get sketchy! Always grab every vendor and thing by the balls so you can have full control, as much as you would want to don’t rely on others.

It may get worse before it gets better! I promise your wedding will be wonderful and it will all fall into place 😉

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