I JUST WANT TO VENT – My MIL and SIL drive me crazyyyyyy

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 16
490 posts
Helper bee

I can’t even believe people like that exist 

Post # 17
5578 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

hopefulmothertobee :  

Unfortunately you can’t force them to be sane. Keep in mind that you will be bringing your child around this madness. I second creating distance, they sound completely toxic.

Post # 18
3620 posts
Sugar bee

They will never be respectful. You and your husband need to establish boundaries with them now. Please read up on batshit crazy MILs on DWIL Nation or All in the Family.

And for God’s sake, don’t ask them if it is off limits for a middle name.

Post # 19
3306 posts
Sugar bee

Kind of sounds like they are gaslighting you by cutting you down over and over again. It wears you down, and that’s what they want. I have a narcisisstic gaslighting SIL who I ignore most of the time because fuck that shit.

I think you have every right to cut them off. Don’t play into their stupid mindfuck games.

Post # 20
1301 posts
Bumble bee

DWIL Nation.

Post # 21
5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2017

That’s awful. Send them a group text, 10 pages with every baby name from Google baby name search and write DON’T YOU DARE USE ANY OF THESE!!!

Post # 22
1481 posts
Bumble bee

Holy shit what a couple of nutjobs. If it were me my responses would consist of smiling and nodding then doing what I want anyway. And alot of “oh interesting” “uh huh” to whatever they say. Also avoiding as much as possible. I couldn’t be bothered to give them more than that. They can think whatever crazy ass thoughts they want but just do whatever is best for you two in all situations. 

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