(Closed) I kinda hate that I basically know when he’ll propose.

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Your emotions seem to be running high because of your situation.  I’m sorry that you two will have to be apart.  How long will you two be in a LDR?  What’s the reason behind it?

I know we can’t replace your SO, but know that we are always here for you.

(hugs)

Post # 5
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9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs. Puffin: It’ll be a tough year, but don’t overwork yourself.  You will experience so many different emotions throughout the year. I can understand how hard it’ll be once you two are apart.  FI and I were in a LDR for over a year and I absolutely hated it – but I was lucky enough to see him on weekends.  I know how lonely I felt during the week and just wished I could be with him.  My focus on school went downhill – silly, I know.  But keep yourself busy at a good pace and everything will come together.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m sorry. πŸ™ FH and I are facing impending LDR if he takes the job he may be offered soon. It’s hard. Hard as heck. I’m sorry, sweetie. (( hugs )) to you for that. 

Who knows? You say you know it will be next week (congrats!) but it could still be a surprise! 

We’re here for you and everything will be alright, you’re getting married in the end! I don’t know about you but I am soooo looking forward to the days where I can go home to FH and wake up right next to him. Hopefully soon enough this will all be a bad blur in the past. 

 

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I knew basically when my husband was going to propose. I didn’t KNOW for sure but I knew he had the ring and we had a nice vacation planned so it wasn’t hard to put 2 and 2 together, ya know? And honestly… It was still awesome. Even though I kinda knew it was coming I didn’t know the hour it would happen and when the moment finally came I was still hit with that overwhelming “omg is this really happening wow its really HERE” kind of thing. 

So I really wouldn’t discount the proposal being awesome. If anything it just gives you an opportunity to get a manicure first so your nails will look nice when everyone compliments your ring πŸ™‚ 

 

Post # 8
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1679 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Aw, I’m so sorry.  You’re frustrated with the situation…it’s only natural that there will be some transferrance. 

The day before my Fiance proposed, I tapped his pocket when I saw a bump in it when we were sitting at Thanksgiving dinner.  I don’t know why I did it.  As soon as I did, I felt horrible.  I knew what it was.  He almost choked on his food.

He proposed the next day on the beach.  πŸ™‚

 

Knowing it’s coming means you’ll be careful to remember all the little moments leading up to the big quiestion! It’s an exciting time!  Enjoy it!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

P.S. I also knew the EXACT day FH was going to propose. Like you, it was time-related and he said he would by the time we may be apart. It was this summer and hot outside but he grabbed a hoodie with huge pockets when we went to the park. I knew he had something and was going to propose, not sure if it was a ring/letter or what. I kinda dreaded it the entire time because I knew the question was coming. 

BUT… you know what? It’s been about two months and it’s now all okay. No, it wasn’t a surprise but it was still special because that day we made it official we were going to be together for the rest of our lives. 

Post # 12
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2263 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Mrs. Puffin: aw. It’s okay. lol. You sound a LOT like me. My FH is now my family and best friend as well. I don’t know how I’m going back to school without him there! Let me know if there’s anything I can do to help, even if it’s only listening or letting you know there’s someone else out there in a similar situation. 

Post # 13
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111 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I knew exactly when he was proposing – we had already started planning so we were both very eager to get the ring on my finger so it’d be official!  He sent me a picture of the ring box at lunch when he picked it up.  And we talked about meeting at home so he could propose officially before we went out to dinner that night.  I remember walking home, thinking “I’m walking into my proposal and I feel perfectly normal.”  I thought I’d be totally calm and it wouldn’t be this big, grand moment because I knew in advance.  But as soon as actually started his speech, I burst into tears!  I totally surprised myself by turning into a big hysterical mess! 

So don’t worry, you’ll still get overwhelmed by the moment.  In fact, I think the anticipation made it even better!

 

 

 

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Mrs. Puffin: Fiance and I are low key, so the only thing I said was that he should make a good speech πŸ™‚  But then I was bawling so much that I didn’t hear most of it!!!  LOL

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