(Closed) I know he has it…I can't take the waiting.

posted 5 years ago in Engagement
Post # 2
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426 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016 - Temescal Lake House

This is me!!! I know he has the ring and it’s literally any day but I’m freaking out! Im already a super anxious person to begin with! Just give it to me!!!

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2018 - Our Backyard

Right there with you. Not only does he have it, he hadn’t hidden it, so it sits there, in its box, on his desk, just taunting me. Lol 

i turn 40 in 10 days but he said it won’t happen then. Argh! I’m hoping during our Europe trip in July? If not then, I’ll go completely bonkers. 

Post # 4
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426 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016 - Temescal Lake House

so you know what it looks like? wahhh!!! I’m honestly baffled because he says it’s any day now but we have nothing planned at all and I know the second he plans something that will most likely be it. Unless he does it on our cabin trip in 2 weeks but we’re going to be with others and I just don’t know  

Post # 5
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128 posts
Blushing bee

Having the ring in the house makes me so anxious and for some strange, totally illogical, reason makes me feel SO upset that he’s not giving it to me. (I know i’m being stupid on this, he clearly loves me and wants to be with me since he even has a ring!!! haha). Sometimes I’m okay with it, and then others I get just so annoyed. It’s been in there since March! Argh! 

Post # 6
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Newbee

Haha totally me. I’m nuts over it! He’s been promising me for the past 2 years that we will get engaged (been together 4), so I’m very impatient at this point especially since the ring is sitting there ready to go as of recent.

It’s definitely taunting me as well 😛

Post # 7
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Worker bee

I’m in the same boat and I’m going crazy.  He’s hid it in our shared apartment and encourages me to look for it. He thinks its hilarious when he catches me digging through closets/drawers/etc lol.

Post # 8
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181 posts
Blushing bee

Oh sweeeetie, I would be going absolutely nuts if I knew he had it!! I have a hunch that he does, but I can’t be sure.. I’m totally in the dark here and still going cray cray!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

I would have been totally anxious if he had the ring and I knew it before he proposed! Having an engagement sooo close and yet not knowing exactly when it would happen would drive me crazy.

When I was talking to my Fiance before he proposed, I just mentioned that I’d rather the proposal be a surprise, but I also was trusting him to not take years to propose. That was about 9 or 10 months in, and then a couple months or so after our year anniversary, he proposed. Apparently though he was planning it pretty much since our conversation! So glad he didn’t tell me, I would have been going crazy all those months!

You can at least take solace knowing that you will be engaged soon, which is super exciting!! And if he takes too long, just tell him to stop making you crazy and get his butt in gear!

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