(Closed) I know I’m being irrational but I’m sad…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1414 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012


Everyone has a past…

Your Fiance loves YOU.

Post # 4
1425 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way. But, I’m confused with the issue at hand? Is it what your anniversary will be? If so, then don’t be upset. There’s finite amount of days to have an anniversary.

Post # 5
11272 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ShutterbugCait:  i can understand how you would feel like this initially but don’t let it bother you. why would you?  you knew he was married before.  we all have pasts.

Post # 7
989 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I know it’s a bit of a bummer, but believe when I say that he probably didn’t associate it because the old anniversary meant so little to him.  To be honest, it was only while reading this thread that I realized that today would have been the 10th anniversary of my first marriage.  It truly isn’t important.

Hope you feel better soon.

Post # 8
530 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012 - Hacienda los Agaves

@ShutterbugCait:  Aww sweetheart, that sounds overwhelming, but think about this: he didn’t even remember the other anniversary, he doesn’t care, he doesn’t think about it, try to stop thinking about it yourself.


Post # 9
1212 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

FH and I are about 12 days off from his first marriage and right now it looks like we will also have the same venue (there is one other we are going to check out this week and if it doesn’t work then it’s the the same venue).


I get how you feel, and thought about it briefly but figured anything I said or mentioned about it would only starting putting those old images in his head which I know are not there unless I bring them up.


I just think of it is same month & venue but RIGHT bride this time round ๐Ÿ˜‰



Post # 10
1284 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

It’s a bummer but I’d let it go. Don’t let it affect you ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
3886 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Men can’t keep the dates right on things they want to remember, or events for people they like. Don’t read too much on the date coincidence; I’d bet a dollar that he legitimately didn’t put the two together!

Post # 12
159 posts
Blushing bee

10 years from now, you will look back at this and wonder why you were even concerned…:)  I would know!


HE PICKED YOU – it only matters in the end – HE PICKED YOU ! Now go and have a blast with the man who you picked!

Post # 13
5428 posts
Bee Keeper

At least it’s not on the same day… Enjoy YOUR day!

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