(Closed) I know Im being ridiculousl but….

posted 8 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

What about doing a program fan but doing them in a different style? 
But seriously, nobody will know 🙂 That’s the beauty of weddings, they’re all different!

Alternate program fan:


Post # 4
332 posts
Helper bee

If I were you I wouldnt be upset. If your wedding and this other wedding shared A LOT of the same guest I might be upset but since its just your alls parents and a grooms man, I wouldnt worry. They are part of your weeding planning most likely anyway and I assume would know what is going on in your weeding. These people are people that are close people that are apart of your wedding and not the pepole you are aiming to wow! If you dont share any other guests Id say go with it and any other planning. I would just make sure the dress is different….lol, that would be bad no matter what. Good luck!

Post # 5
114 posts
Blushing bee

Program fans are very common for outdoor weddings in the South. In fact, I haven’t been to one that didn’t have them. No one is going to think you stole the idea from her because I’m sure people are used to seeing them!

Post # 6
292 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Yes, it seems really upsetting, but just take a step back, breathe, and realize that that detail is the least of your guests’ interest. I guarantee you that no one will even think that your fan is just like the other bride’s fan.

This is very small.

Let it go.

Post # 7
2342 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Littlemissmoo:  I’m digging the fan you posted!!  I’m stealing that idea for our Aruba wedding!!!

Post # 8
1883 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I don’t get why you are upset-she didn’t steal your idea or anything.Program fans are in every DIY tutorial imaginable. i went to two weddings in a row that had program fans, and mashed potato bars. And I mean this in the nicest way possible, but most of the guests are going to forget about the program fans as soon as the wedding is over… and yours will probably look totally different from the other brides’. I really wouldn’t worry about it so much-if you love them have them!

Post # 10
4465 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Program fans are definitely pretty common.  I wouldn’t see them at your wedding and think you copied off of someone else.

P.S. I’m doing the ones littlemissmoo posted for my wedding :o)

Post # 11
2249 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

too bad there arent program space heaters for my pacific nw march wedding….

Post # 12
3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

haha those could get a little cumbersome!

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