(Closed) I know its coming But..

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2441 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

You are not being dramatic at all.  I think it is strange to plan a wedding when technically there is no wedding to plan.  Tell you boyfriend you feel uncomfortable planning an wedding that technically is not in the works.  Tell him you are uncomfortable at the travel agent.  If he cares about you he wouldn’t want you to feel uncomfortable.  Maybe he just doesn’t realize this is indeed wierd.  If you know he bought the ring… what the heck is he waiting on?  Maybe telling him how you feel “communication” will get things moving along.  

Post # 5
483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I felt this way in february (right after coming to the decision that “well we should just get married this year”) and that threw any engagement out the window (not that I care much about the engagement period but I was expecting a surprising proposal for years even though we knew we wanted to be together and would get married some day. 

I bought my dress and all right after that decission, and just this week we purchased a stone and I found out he already purchased a setting and it’s AT HOME!  It’s no surprise that a ring is coming now but I have no idea what ring he chose and how he’s going to spring it on me and on top of that he walked out of the jewellers WITH the setting while I was with him (hid it in his sock under his pants which is so hilarious and surprising already when he confessed it to me after we bought the stone together)  

Before I knew he bought the setting we were at the mall looking at mens bands, and then I went over to look at the TACORIs (because I thought he was still ring shopping) and the associate was kinda confused that we were trying all the wedding bands on and told her we set our wedding for this year.  I asked to try some rings on and she was a bit taken back when she said “Oh so you’re looking for engagement rings too? ”  and I told her yes. 

It is all a bit weird, but everyone’s different, I’m just super happy to be with someone who loves me as much as my Fiance does and I can’t wait to be married to him.     

While you plan your wedding now and until you get an official proposal to say “I’m engaged” and show off the ring there will be awkward moments perhaps but that shouldn’t stop you from going about your planning, it’s great to see your fiance is already looking into booking the destination wedding and planning! 🙂 

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