(Closed) I know it's nothing but…

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

Normally, I’m the one bringing up rings and marriage- “What kind of cake would you want?” “DJ, Ipod, or a live band?” “Can we marry in a forest setting?” “Look at this gorgeous ring!” Etc.

sounds like you are more brining up wedding talk.  marriage talk would be how you are going to handle finances, fights, ILs, wanting/raising kids, etc.

 

Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper

It sounds promising OP! Sometimes dudes just need a bit more time to wrap their head around the idea of getting married, but it sounds like he is totally on board if he’s initiating plans to try on rings. I hope it happens quickly for you bee!

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2020

It sounds promising! It’s always good when men are actively showing you that they want to take the next step. Sometimes men need a little push. I was very pushy in the beginning then I realized that wasn’t the way i wanted to go about it. I wanted it to be mutual where we discussed it both just as much. I gave it two months and my SO started bringing it up on his own. We are in a good spot now and it feels natural. Good luck and I hope he does it before the time line!

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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varalidaine :  it sounds like perhaps you have been a little bit full on and also he has been a bit flippant with you killing yourself waiting, but hey, I am glad he took you to look at rings. I just hope he doesn’t keep you waiting for too long. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I think it’s lovely that he’s coming round more and more to wedding and that’s he’s initiating things now. Keeping my fingers crossed that it’s less than 2 years.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

Stop nagging the poor man!! Geez!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

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mrsaime :  My thoughts exactly.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

That’s so exciting!! Hopefully it won’t be too far away now. He’s clearly excited too!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee

No, he really does mind your nagging!!!!!!! Did you not read your own post?

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