(Closed) I know it's work, but you've GOT TO BE KIDDING ME

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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1006 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Legally?  Why?  

I can understand wanting him around to help with last minute planning/decisions/stress, but I don’t see why being married would make a difference when he’s overseas unless you think it would make him less likely to stray or something? 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Ah, never mind, misread. Yeah that sucks, but really, if you read some threads about how much FI’s help with planning, you’ll be on your own anyway! 

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Why is it better legally?

Post # 6
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491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yep, legally I don’t think it would make too much difference unless you want to go with him and apply for a visa. 

Post # 8
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4780 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

what are the benefits?

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@searock:  Maybe do the legal bit in a courthouse just in case and stick with your plans for the reception? 

If you’ve explained your reasons to him, why is he not receptive to the idea of moving the wedding? 

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@searock:  Why does he say it will be harder if you’re married? I don’t understand that, but I do understand your side. Also, would he consider looking for another job? It sounds like you will be playing single mom if you two ever have kids (that’s never fun).

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@searock:  and I’m really curious to know which country he is going to that you deem so unsafe?

Post # 14
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Busy bee

I don’t understand the big deal? 6 weeks (a really short time!) in Europe isn’t exactly the DRC…

It might be annoying to not have him around immediately before, but I guess that almost makes it easier – just make decisions and no debating over it!

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