(Closed) I know this shouldn't bother me but it does!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It sucks,but you know the truth. I have a similar type of situation. I dated a guy the last few months of high school and during the summer. He begged me not to go to university (24 hr drive away), but I broke it off and went. 

Anyways, a few months later I came home for Christmas and found out in my absence he had spread rumors that he dumped me because I was on hardcovers drugs, and that I cheated on him with a ton of guys. It sucked. Itmade me realize who my friends were and it took a bit to reestablish my reputation in my small home town.

In the end, years later, I don’t care. Atthe time it was upsetting, but you get overt. Don’t worry!

Post # 4
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5073 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

just ignore it.  My ex-husband told everyone he could find (even strangers on the street) that I was seeing my Fiance while we were still married.

It’s a bald-faced lie.  

Don’t let it get to you.  You can’t control other people’s actions, only your reaction to them.

Post # 7
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2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Yup.  I think it’s exes ways of justifying their loss to the world.  They can’t have them now so they must have been horrible people that have wronged poor innocent me.

People are petty. My ex did the same.  Fucker cheated on me, hit me, and when I left I was the slut. Go figure. 

 

 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@FutureMrs86:    Oh he got his. Haha. He was at a mutual friend of ours house ( who incidentally likes me better) and he was spouting off about me infront of my cousin ( we’re tight, raised like brother and sister) . Everyone that was there SWORE that my ex ” ran in to a tree and then fell down the hill”.  There is no hill. 

Post # 11
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126 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

For what it is worth, my ex said all kinds of nasty rumors when we broke up and even brainwashed my son against me, he always said he was as good as his word, but today he lives in federal prison and I am living in paradise, like someone said Karma

And second someone once told me that it is none of my business what other people think of me and that makes life so much easier for me

Post # 12
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817 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013 - Mansion House at the MD Zoo

It’s the ABC rule… All Bitches are Crazy. My FI’s ex dumped him 9 months before we met. His transgression? He proposed to her after they had been together for 5 years. He was shocked that she said no. He then paid her bills for a few months, even after she had cound a roommate to split the townhouse they had been living in. In exchange, she told all their friends horrible things about him, including trying to turn his younger sister against him. She pulled some craziness at his grandmother’s funeral this May too. I just have to shake my head and laugh. She’s the crazy one, so she’s the one who looks crazy.

Post # 13
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5660 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

well that’s just pathetic that she’s still talking about it 4 years later. But I mean, who cares what she thinks or says? She doesn’t matter one iota in your life!

Post # 14
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5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Ugh.  I’ve run into the sort of BS before too.  It sucks, but you know the truth, and the people who really know you and care about you won’t believe her lies.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@imalittlebirdie:  This is exactly it – there was a person SO was interested in and had a minor thing with a few months previous to us getting together.  We share a similar circle of friends, and after things went belly up and he got over her and moved on (there was a rebound girl long before me) with me, some of the mutual friends were expressing interest over our relationship – insinuating that we had something going on during the time he was talking to this other person.  We had been friends long before he even knew them, and we had casual, aquaintance interaction.  Nothing near what these people (who we have both since unfriended on FB, etc) were implying.

People make me sick.  If that floats their boat to make up crap about stuff they know nothing about, more power to them.  And their sad little lives.

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