Post # 1
Hi, bees… I’ve been a little lost lately… I made an anon account and these posts:
Husband is standing in the way of my dream education. Long.
First marriage counseling session. Need advice.
After we stopped TTC, I realized…we wanted different things…and deep down, he did not want what was best for me nor what I wanted in life. He did not support my dreams and never will.
And have made my decision. Last night, I packed my things, and I left. I’m at my mom’s house now. Figuring out my life, beginning to rebuild. I’ve already met with an attorney and file on Tuesday.
I’m couch surfing to finish out my last two weeks at my job. I’ve been applying at places here… I’m nervous, terrified… Grieving, the loss of him, the loss of my dog (he took one, I took the other… I’m so scared he’s going to try to take both of them…) I suppose just looking for someone to tell me that it’s going to be okay. Maybe share your stories of how you got the dogs in a divorce… Because I don’t want anything… ANYTHING…other than my little dog. She’s my baby =( I’d be crushed if I lost her.
PS, if you know me IRL or on FB, I obviously haven’t made this public yet and would appreciate if this could be kept secret a few more weeks…
Post # 4
Oh, Chuck. I’m so sorry that you have to do this, but you have to do what’s best for you. <3
Post # 5
I remember reading your first post and it made me so sad… I’m sorry for everything you’re going through but glad that you are taking care of you. hugs!
Post # 6
@ChuckNorris: oh, friend. I am so, so, so, sorry to hear this. hugs! take care of yourself. Everything will be ok!
Post # 7
Yes, please do what is best for you! You need to be happy, that’s what is most important.
(And if you feel like you married too young or too fast… this is a hard experience, but a learning one <3)
Post # 8
I don’t have any advice, but I’m so sorry you’re going through this. 🙁 Lots of hugs and happy thoughts are being sent your way!
Post # 9
Oh goodness, i’m so sorry dear. 🙁 (hugs)
Post # 10
How very brave of you. After reading your other posts I believe that you made the right choice. Life is way too short to be unhappy.
Focus now on the future that you want. Good luck
Post # 11
I am so sorry. I am sure it is a tough decision and you will have tough days, but deep down it was the right decision. Please feel free to reach out to the bee for support. We can only imagine how tough it is for you right now.
Post # 12
My heart goes out to you because all of us have been where you are at some point in our lives. It will get better I promise you. I left my daugher’s father when he went to work and it was the best thing I ever did I had a few emotional scars but they will heal.
I hope you get your little dog and he will realize that he is not able to take care of her and not want to separate them. It is scary I must admit but it is necessary, you deserve so much more than what he was willing to give you.
I will keep you in my prayers…GREAT BIG HUG TO YOU…
Post # 13
I just wanted to post and give a little support. I don’t have any dog stories to share but i have followed your posts in the past and i know that you will make it through this. Best to you.
Post # 14
I’m so sorry to hear this but I’m so happy you are doing what is best for you and your happiness.
Post # 15
I’m so sorry, but I’m also so proud of you for standing up for yourself and what you know you need and deserve to be happy
Post # 16
I am very sorry, but everything will be okay. Just stay strong.