I left: the end to that horrid saga and some reflection

posted 11 months ago in Waiting
Post # 16
1005 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

YAAAAAAAAAASSS QUEEN!! Way to stand up for yourself and your values! Other bees in miserable, stagnant relationships: TAKE NOTE

Post # 17
825 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2019

Sounds like you did the best thing for yourself! Congratulations! 

Post # 18
1068 posts
Bumble bee

Well done. Spread your wings and feel that freedom. Congratulations on giving yourself some self respect. Relish that new clean brain space where you no longer have to dedicate another moment of thought to the dishonest, patronizing jerk.

All the best for the future.

Post # 19
245 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2019 - City, State

Really pleased to see this update. Well done you for going. Stuff is not worth more than your pride or freedom, but I’m sorry you had to leave things behind. Good luck!

Post # 20
2141 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

phillygirl93 :  I’m glad you left. I’m happy to hear that you got out sooner and was able to not have to wait till October. Hopefully, you can heal from this. Those months of having to pretend while getting increasingly annoyed and bitter with him certainly took their toll on you. 

You deserve to be with someone who won’t strong you along and you deserve to have a relationship on your terms!! Good luck bee.

Post # 21
2485 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Good for you bee! Brighter things are in your future now that you took the trash out. I wish you the best!

Post # 23
2720 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

I’ve been rooting for you since the beginning bee, so glad to hear your update and that you were finally able to leave ❤️ 

All the best for your exciting future!

Post # 24
3669 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

This is awesome bee. Enjoy your new space! I was SO excited about my first new place after my ex, it was the best feeling ever… Show it off! Your friends will be really happy for you, whether you have a super awesomely furnished place or not. 

Also, EFF that dickwad and his patronizing bullshit. “good girls” who “behave” are miserable little puppets that manipulative liars love to push around, and you are NOT one of them. Good for you!

Enjoy your time and your place. Congratulations on finding your freedom!

Post # 25
2470 posts
Buzzing bee

GOOD FOR YOU!  You should be SO proud of yourself for being able to leave.  You are so strong.  

Post # 26
243 posts
Helper bee

I’m feeling secondhand relief from your victory ending! Congrats! I honestly wouldn’t miss the bed, either, if I were in your shoes….

Post # 27
1891 posts
Buzzing bee

phillygirl93 : I am dying to know, after dumping his stupid ass did he finally admit he was never going to propose? Give us some insight into his reaction. I always suspected that a guy like that wouldn’t fight very hard once dumped bc he knew he was never going to propose and the girl would wise up eventually and leave. So curious to know how he replied to you dumping him. What did you say? Did you let it rip about him dangling it above your head? Get it all out and feel better telling him off? Congrats btw for getting out! Happy for you! 

Post # 28
10032 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

phillygirl93 :  So proud of you!  Enjoy your new place, you are free!!  Congrats!

Post # 29
1152 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - Fremont, CA

Good for you! I was wondering what had happened to you. I’m glad you are safe and have a new shot at happiness!

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