(Closed) I Like to see boobs!

posted 8 years ago in Parenting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Oh goodness, I’m sorry! That’s so frustrating.

The only thing I can think of us is just keep providing a stable alternative to her (apparently) crazy environment. I’m guessing it won’t help to fight her standards, but just keep encouraging better ones at your house. Like tell your step-daughter she looks beautiful on days she doesn’t happen to be wearing the boobettes. 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

x_x some people… hopefully you’ll be able to be a good influence on the kids to negate some of her bad influence. good luck!

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Goooooood heavens, she sounds like a piece of work! Stepmom to stepmom, I feel your pain. Darling Husband and I have a lot of differences with bio-mom too. Sometimes you have to learn to bite your tongue and sometimes you have to pick your battles. Like jedeve mentioned, I would keep telling stepdaughter that she’s beautiful without those padded bras (and “accidentally” throw them out when they show up at your house). I think FH should likely have a conversation with bio-mom about the showering issue. 9 & 6 is pretty old for a boy and a girl to be showering together, I would be uncomfortable with that too.

As for what the kids watch on tv….. That’s a sticky subject. Personally, I’m with you. Age appropriate material, be reasonable and pratical. A six year old should not be watching Friday the 13th. That being said, you can’t control what goes on under other people’s roofs and if the kids aren’t acting out or having nightmares because of it, what can you do? My nephew started watching Jurassic Park when he was 2. I was horrified whe my sister told me. What two year old needs to watch that?! Now he’s 6, still loves the movie and dinosaurs and hasn’t started swearing like Jeff Goldblum yet. My 4 year old stepson watched Star Wars at his uncle’s house (bio mom’s side). Personally, I wouldn’t have shown him a movie with that much violence, but he freaking loves it and now he’s going to be Darth Vader for Halloween. We gave in and watched Star Wars over the weekend. What can you do?!

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