(Closed) I lost a bridesmaid…

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
405 posts
Helper bee

Yikes! All I know is your side of things but I’m gonna say what an ungrateful so & so! I wonder how much of the "wanting to go home" was the other BMs and how much was HER! We’re not having a Bridal party but I know anyone I’d have chosen would have had to drive AT LEAST 2 hours to be here and I would be so GRATEFUL that they would be willing to do that! And she says YOU’RE immature?! WOW!
I have no words of advice except just keep saying to yourself that she’s NOT worth your time!

Post # 4
2640 posts
Sugar bee

Oh man.  I’ msorry your Bm did that to you.  That is unfair.  Do you plan on talking to her ever?  I guess if it was me I would try to explain (e-mail, phone message) what the story was.  Although it would be to hopefully make her feel like a jerk, and not to repair the friendship (in this case.) -Ugg sorry to say.  I’m TO for you.

Have a wonderful wedding, though.

Post # 6
5398 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow, I’m so sorry for the drama and immaturity, but it sounds like you’ve made peace with the situation, so I’m glad for you!

Post # 7
1078 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

Wow, that is quite a situation. I would let it roll off your back, and forget about it. It’s a blessing in disguise that she’s not going to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man of yours.

When it comes to your big day, you only need to be surrounded by those who are going to drama-free and stress-free!! God has given you and easy out. =)

Post # 8
337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Good for you for getting over that. I would be so bitter and angry… Was there another reason why she was so mad and willing to ruin everything? It couldn’t have just been that you were late, right? Unless she was crazy pants?


Post # 9
119 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’d just forget her. She seems to over react, pretty severly and I would try to just put it behind me and move on. As far as the fourth bridesmaid, choose who you’re going to look back and enjoy having in that position. When planning my wedding, I’ve heard my mom say several times how she wishes she hadn’t had this person because now they aren’t around, etc. Good for you for working through it!

Post # 10
699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Good for you for moving on! It’s hard, I know. I have a crazy bridesmaid who is non-stop complaining and trying to take credit for my ideas (she even thinks she picked out my dress and I chose it because she liked it! WHAT?!?! It’s my dream dress and it had nothing to do with her!). I am thisclose to asking her to not be in the wedding cause I can’t handle her drama. My wedding planning has been virtually stress free besides her.

Thanks for sharing! It helps to hear that I am not the only one with a crazy friend! haha!

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