Post # 62
oh sweetie I don’t even know what to say… It’s so hard to feel like we know each other through this thread, and see you broken like this, and hear about your baby. I can’t even imagine the pain you are going through, I just started bawling reading your note. I can’t help but feel awful that so far my baby is fine. One thing I will never understand about life is how so many women get pregnant accidentally and abort their babies, or abuse them – and there are so many women who deserve to be a mom, and can’t. I’m sure you’ll be able to get pregnant again – you’re young and healthy and this is your first.
I can’t tell you how sorry I am for you. I hope and pray that your heart will be healed soon, I’m so glad you have a supportive, loving husband. I hope God blesses you with a beautiful, healthy baby soon. <3 ((HUGS))
Post # 63
I’m so sorry for your loss. HUGS
Post # 64
I’m so sorry for your loss, stargal34. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Post # 65
I’m so sorry for your loss. I had one too. It is horrible but it gets better. Take some time for yourself and with your husband.
Post # 66
HUGS I know how you feel – missed miscarriage. The same thing happened to me 3 weeks ago. What killed me after the shock was that the baby was in me for two days until I had a DC. I felt helpless and disturbed that the baby was dead inside me. I kept seeing the baby in my mind. After the external U.S the OB requested that I had an internal one as an emergency. The image was on a wide screen TV…Seeing the baby like this absolutely killed me.
There were so many emotions running through me and I never thought a miscarriage would be like this. I never knew … it’s like your dearest love one died.
I have only just stopped bleeding after the DC 3 weeks ago..but already we are trying again. I feel that there just needs to be a baby inside of me. My mum is overseas at the moment and she keeps calling me up and asking how the baby is. It tears me apart when I lie over the phone, I don’t know how I will tell her when she arrives in Oct. Don’t give up. I have read that after a DC you are still very fertile and what I’ve read you can get pregnant straight away and successfully have a healthy baby.
I have been doing pregnancy tests and up until yesterday my hormone levels were high, the line is fading. But you don’t have to wait until your hormone levels drop, because an U.S will tell you how many months/weeks the baby is.
You aren’t alone…. I know it’s hard… keep taking your vitamin tablets and prepare your body to try again. HUGS I still tear up about it, Don’t forget the people around you are staying strong for you, so if your husband sees that you are stressing out the next pregnancy might be a stressful time for both.
Send me an message if you want to let out some emotions and we can go through it together.