- 3 years ago
I lost my engagement ring and I don’t know what to do anymore.
My fiance and I are in a long distance relationship. He proposed 2 months ago. He went to visit me and he proposed after getting my parents’ blessing.
Anyway, I am currently working abroad and I am renting a single room with an attached bathroom (room size: around 18 square meters plus bathroom).
2 weeks ago, I went home from work, I did my usual routine. I sat down to rest for a while, I took my ring off and placed it on my bed. I took my necklace and placed it beside my ring. I cooked dinner. That night, I made a mess. I spilled all over my floor, so I cleaned up and then I took the trash out. I then ate dinner, then washed the dishes. While waiting for my fiance to call, I took out our scrapbook and I added a couple of pictures inside it. After about an hour, my fiance called and we talked until midnight. I said goodbye, I cleaned up the mess from the decorations I made for the scrapbook and then I slept immediately.
That night, I had a bad dream. I remember seeing the ring and I just had a feeling that something was wrong. There was nothing happening in my dream. The ring was just there but something felt off.
I woke up, I tried to look for it. I found my necklace but my ring wasn’t there anymore. I have been searching for it for 2 weeks. Every night after work, I would be spending the whole evening trying to search for it. I have checked EVERYWHERE. I checked every corner, I looked under my bed and closet, searched inside my bags and every pocket. I removed my duvet, my bed sheet and pillow cases. I even removed the mattress from the bed frame.
I think I’m going crazy. I even tried to follow some videos on youtube, hoping that somehow I would be able to tap into my subconscious and remember what happened that night. I also prayed to St. Anthony. Still nothing.
I blame myself every day for losing it, to the point I couldn’t eat or sleep. My fiance is a bit mad because he feels like I didn’t take care of the ring.
By The Way, it’s not insured. But for me and my fiance, it didn’t matter how much it cost. The sentimental value matters more than its material worth. But I messed up. I should have been more careful.
I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m not sure if I can still find it. I don’t know how to make it up to my fiance.
Do you guys have any tips on how I can find my ring?