(Closed) I loved the dress yesterday! But today, not so much….

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

It doesn’t matter what he says now, once he sees you in it walking towards him, it’ll be the best dress he’s ever seen!

Post # 4
7901 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Don’t worry about what he thinks he does or doesn’t like. Get what YOU like and you will be so radiant and beautiful that he won’t have a second to think about the dress, only about YOU and how amazing you look. He will take in the whole package.

Post # 8
3830 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999


There is a reason you picked that one. Every wedding dress is lovely, but YOUR wedding dress makes you feel something special. And that is why you selected it. 

He is a guy, he might say he doesnt like that but when he sees it on you he wont even realize what he said. Honestly. Ignore him. 

If you love the dress, thats all that matters.  

Post # 9
1868 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My husband (then fiance) told me he hated mermaids and loved ball gowns. I wore a mermaid… I was a little nervous about it but he thought my dress was perfect when he saw it for the first time.

Post # 10
5073 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Stick with your dress.  I’d be more concerned about the fact that my Fiance even knew what an “asymmetrical ruffled dress” was.


Post # 13
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Bride030313:  You have to stop looking at dresses. Of course you will have dress regret if you continue to dress shop, online or not. Especially when you are only getting to see the dresses online on models, that dress may be beautiful on them but may just not suit you, so just stop.

I asked my Fiance what he liked and didn’t like before I bought my dress, he didn’t like lace, or pickups or anything really poufy, but he loved strapless dresses and beading. My dress is a ballgown by oleg cassini from db, I love it, and while I think Fiance will love the bodice, the skirt is pretty poufy, ultimately I know all that matters will be me walking down that aisle.


Post # 14
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

mine told me no bling, i got bling. when i showed him pics of me in plain dresses withou bling he said it was boring, when i showed him pics of me in dresses with bling he liked them. men are dumb – you look gorgeous, if that is the dress you love for your wedding stay with it – he will love you in it!


Post # 15
1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with all the PPs.  Your dress looks lovely!  And, your Fiance will love the dress because you’ll be happy and glowing in it. 


Post # 16
11166 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

Your Fiance is spouting out thoughts but in reality he doesn’t have a clue what it would look like on YOU!

My Darling Husband indicated a strong dislike for a dress similar to the one I wore while he was next to me watching a SYTTD episode. I was absolutely crushed! On the day of he loved, LOVED, my dress and couldn’t get over the details and bling (the very thing he said he didn’t like on the other dress). He kept touching it and examining it, he was truly in awe. Moral of the story….you dress is beautiful and boys are silly.


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