Post # 16
Stop feeling sick. In the scheme of life this is not a big deal – because you took all the steps you needed to make sure things didnt go too far. You learned a lesson, an important one. When I say marriage is a choice, this is exactly what I mean. You chose your Fiance.
Post # 17
I think it’s good you told your Fiance (you don’t want to he in a situation where this guy has something over you that you’re worried about getting out).
Personally, I would say that if you are someone who has a propensity for mushy boundaries, you might want to look at that and address it.