(Closed) I made her cry.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

had she purchased anything yet?

 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Omg, so you’re just supposed to pretend she ignored you for eight months until she wanted to reconnect and then it’s like nothing happened? yeesh. :/

I’m really glad you didn’t include her in your bridal party, it would have been a ton of stress you don’t need!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

Wow, I wouldn’t worry about it. Sounds like a good decision, and you broke it to her as best you could.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yikes, what a difficult situation for you! Of course her feelings were hurt, but I’m guessing so were yours over the past 8 months with no effort on her part to make contact. And to call it ‘wedding shit’ really seems casual for someone who assumed she would be Maid/Matron of Honor. Hope you are feeling okay. * hugs *

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sorry 🙁 what a terrible spot to be in! You did the right thing in my opinion, and I wouldn’t worry about it. She knows you did a lot for her wedding but she is probably sad to know she can’t do the same (not that she would have by the sounds of it)…but she’ll be okay. It was probably harder for you to tell her than it was for her to hear it.

I’m kind of in the same boat. I just didn’t have the balls to tell my friend no, she cannot be Maid/Matron of Honor…even though I didn’t ask her. Even though she has bailed on me everytime we are suppose to hang out. Even though now that now I haven’t spoken up…and now that had made herself Maid/Matron of Honor, she still doesn’t do anything that a Maid/Matron of Honor would do. No bridal shower…no help, no support.

So good for you for sticking to your guns!

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It’s OK to be sad; no one likes hurting the feelings of someone you were once close to. But as pink.sequins said, she hurt yours, too. And it doesn’t make you a bad person for moving on with your life without her. There doesn’t need to be blame or a falling out; it’s just how it is. I hope you’re feeling OK, and it’s totally understandable for you to feel down while you grieve the friendship.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sorry it had to go down that way. 8 months, WTH?

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I wish I could be more like you! There are a few people I would love to tell that to! Kudos to you and good riddance to her 🙂

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