(Closed) I may have to spill the beans sooner than expected.

posted 11 months ago in Waiting
Post # 76
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2019

phillygirl93 :  but when you make solo decisions about your relationship without telling him it’s ok?

Also “fuck that bitch”? Wow I just can’t imagine living with someone and pretending to be in a relationship with them when secretly harboring this much animosity. But then I am not very good at being deceptive…

You seem like a really bitter, immature and angry person. 

Post # 77
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Bee Keeper

So does he think you are still re-signing the lease? How is he going to afford the lease if its just him with 0 notice that he either needs to move or find a roommate?

Post # 80
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Busy bee

phillygirl93 :  Out of curiosity, have you kinda worked out what you would say to him if he did propose? 

Post # 82
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2019

phillygirl93 :  wouldn’t it be perfect if he’s thinking exactly the same thing you are! Maybe he realized that you two just aren’t meant for each other too and he has a back up plan and new apartment for when the lease is up. I really hope this is the case, then it’s a happy ending for everyone. 

Post # 83
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Helper bee

phillygirl93 :  I understand your reasoning and frustration, but I don’t think you are handling this well. I think you should probably give him a month’s notice so he has time to find a roommate or something. I deeply understand the temptation to be petty and give someone who has hurt you their just desserts, but I think your animosity and desire for revenge border on manic.

I know what we say won’t change your opinion or the outcome of situation and I don’t want to rake you over the coals. I would just like to suggest that you do some independent counseling after all of this is over with. I think you have some resentment/bitterness that you need to work through.

Post # 84
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Busy bee

phillygirl93 :  Aw bee, I know that you’re hurting but please don’t label yourself as a commitment phobe. Don’t let a crappy end to a relationship get the best of you because at the end of the day you ARE worth all of the love and commitment you’ve been searching for. Take the time you need to heal but don’t view yourself that way because it might get in the way of a potential romance in the future. hugs and good luck on the new place!

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