I messed up. Friend seems to be avoiding me. Help!

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 77
1748 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - City, State

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codepurple89 :  I feel like even if somehow you did miss that there is someone with DS in her life…she could still have deleted the GIF herself. If it truly offended her that much, she could have deleted it and then sent a text to you like “uh wtf was that gif about?” Like a normal person would. Who just leaves up the comments/gifs on their own post that offend them? Why wouldn’t she just delete it? Especially if she’s that internet savvy?

And yeah your texts seem a little dramatic but everyone’s a little dramatic sometimes, and again, she’s been your friend for 15 years. You’d think she’d know that you were being sincere even though you were dramatic?

Something just isn’t adding up here. 

EDIT: and by that I don’t mean to suggest that you’re at fault or you’re not telling the whole story. I’m just totally baffled by the whole situation lol

Post # 79
909 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2020

Honestly, I would probably call her out and make sure nothing else is going on. Just a simple “Hey, I noticed you haven’t been responding to my texts and I just want to make everything is okay? Are you doing alright? Is something going on? I miss you a lot.”

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